Category: winning mindset

Coach Wheeler’s Top 7 Ways to Anticipate the Future on defense!

In basketball, defense is more than just reacting to what happens in front of you. Elite defenders seem to have a knack for knowing exactly where the ball is going before the offense makes a move. This ability to anticipate the offense’s next action and be one step ahead is a hallmark of great defense. Players who master this skill can disrupt the flow of the game, generate steals, and swing momentum in their team’s favor.

Developing anticipation skills, especially in man-to-man defense, requires more than just physical ability. It involves studying tendencies, understanding positioning, reading body language, and having a high basketball IQ. In this article, we’ll break down how to hone these anticipation skills so you can start predicting the future on the court. As a fun reference point, we’ll even look at how Wayne Gretzky’s famous approach of “skating to where the puck will be” translates to basketball.

1. Study Opponents and Game Film:
See the Game Before It Happens

Anticipation begins long before the game even starts. The best defenders put in the work to study their opponents’ tendencies, understanding not just individual habits but also how entire teams run their offensive sets. Just like Wayne Gretzky would skate to where the puck was going to be, basketball players can anticipate where the ball is going based on offensive patterns.

How to Apply It:

  • Learn Tendencies: Every player has specific habits they rely on, especially under pressure. Do they prefer to drive to their right? Do they like pulling up for a jumper after one dribble? By studying your opponent’s go-to moves, you begin to develop a mental map of where they are likely to move with the ball in different situations.
  • Analyze Offensive Plays: Team offenses have structure and patterns that often repeat themselves. By studying game film and observing how teams execute plays, you can begin to predict their next move. For example, if a team frequently runs a pick-and-roll and swings the ball to the weak side for a three-point shot, you can anticipate this pass and position yourself accordingly.

As Wayne Gretzky famously said, “I skate to where the puck is going to be, not where it has been.” In basketball, this means moving to where the ball will be, not where it currently is. By learning the tendencies of both players and offensive systems, you can get yourself into the right position to make a steal or disrupt the play.

Real-World Application:

Suppose you’re guarding a point guard who always passes to the corner after using a screen in a pick-and-roll situation. After studying their film, you notice this happens repeatedly. During the game, you anticipate the pass before it’s even made, sliding into the passing lane and intercepting the ball. You’ve effectively “skated to where the puck will be,” positioning yourself to capitalize on a predictable pattern.

2. Positioning and Footwork:
Be Where You Need to Be

Anticipation isn’t just a mental game—it requires precise physical positioning. If you’re not in the right spot, even perfect anticipation won’t result in a steal or defensive stop. Proper footwork and positioning are foundational to man-to-man defense, and they give you the physical tools to act on your reads.

How to Apply It:

  • Stay in a Defensive Stance: Maintaining a low, balanced defensive stance allows you to move quickly in any direction. By staying low, with your knees bent and your weight on the balls of your feet, you can react faster to any movement by the offense.
  • Cut Off Driving Angles: Anticipate the offensive player’s preferred direction and position your body to force them into uncomfortable situations. If you know they favor driving right, position yourself to cut off that lane and force them to go left, where they might be less effective. By cutting off options, you can funnel them into traps or force a bad pass.
  • The “Monkey in the Middle” Principle: As a defender, your goal is to either be close enough to the ball handler to disrupt their dribble or, if you’re anticipating a pass, closer to the receiver. Think about how “Monkey in the Middle” works—if you’re stuck directly between the passer and receiver, it’s easy for them to pass over you. Instead, position yourself closer to the ball or the receiver so that the pass is more difficult and potentially easier to intercept. The closer you are to the intended action, the higher your chances of making a play.

Real-World Application:

Let’s say the offense is running a simple pick-and-roll. As a defender on the wing, you can anticipate that the ball-handler will pass to the roll man or kick it out to the corner shooter. By using proper positioning and staying low, you can move to the passing lane and intercept the pass before the offense can get a shot off. You’re positioning yourself based on the likely next move, not just reacting to the current play.

3. Read Body Language and Ball Position: Eyes and Hands Tell the Story

One of the most important parts of anticipation is learning how to read the body language of the offensive player. Skilled defenders can pick up on subtle clues, such as where the ball is held, the position of the player’s eyes, or the angle of their shoulders, to predict what’s going to happen next.

How to Apply It:

  • Watch the Eyes and Shoulders: Offensive players often give away their intentions with their eyes and shoulders. A quick glance to a teammate can signal an impending pass, while a dropped shoulder often indicates an attempt to drive. By focusing on these cues, you can get ahead of the play and put yourself in a position to contest the drive or steal the ball.
  • Pay Attention to Ball Position: The position of the ball in the player’s hands is one of the best indicators of their next move:
    • If the ball is held low and to the side (usually on their strong hand), they are likely preparing to dribble or drive in that direction.
    • If the ball is held overhead, the player is likely preparing to make a pass or take a shot.
    • When dribbling, if the ball is being controlled on the right side, anticipate that they may either pass or drive to their right. Similarly, if they are controlling the ball on the left, be ready for a move or pass in that direction.

By recognizing these subtle body language and ball-handling cues, you can anticipate the offensive player’s next move before they even make it.

Real-World Application:

Imagine you’re guarding a wing player who has the ball on their right side and is scanning the court. Based on where they’re holding the ball and where they’re looking, you anticipate that they’ll try to drive baseline. You adjust your positioning, cut off the baseline, and force them into a turnover or a bad shot. You’ve effectively predicted the future based on reading their ball position and body language.

4. Court Awareness and Basketball IQ:
See the Whole Floor

Great anticipation doesn’t stop with your man—it extends to understanding the bigger picture on the court. Elite defenders know how to recognize offensive spacing, player movement, and likely passing options. Court awareness allows you to anticipate where players will move and where the ball will go next.

How to Apply It:

  • Recognize Offensive Spacing: Offensive teams use specific spacing to open up passing lanes, create driving lanes, or generate open shots. By recognizing how players are positioned on the court, you can anticipate the likely play. For instance, if a team is spaced out with shooters on the wings, expect skip passes and quick ball reversals. If they’re bunched up, be ready for a drive or an inside pass.
  • Know the Opposing Team’s Plays and Press Breaks: Once you’ve seen an opponent’s set plays or press breaks, you can anticipate where the players will move. Teams often fall into predictable patterns, especially when they’re under pressure. If you know that a team’s press break always involves a pass to the middle of the court, you can anticipate and jump the passing lane for a steal. By being aware of these “automatic” passes, you can force turnovers and disrupt the offense’s rhythm.

Real-World Application:

Let’s say the opposing team has a play where they run a high screen for their point guard, and then swing the ball to the corner for a three-pointer. After recognizing this pattern, you can start to anticipate the pass to the corner and get into position early to contest the shot or intercept the pass. Similarly, if you’ve seen their press break before, you know which players are likely to receive the ball and can position yourself to create a turnover.

5. Active Hands and Deflections:
Disrupt, Deflect, Steal

Active hands are a critical component of anticipation. Even if you don’t always get the steal, deflecting a pass or disrupting the dribble can throw off the offense and lead to turnovers.

How to Apply It:

  • Get in the Passing Lanes: When you anticipate a pass, use your hands to make it more difficult for the offense to complete it. By staying active and positioning yourself between the passer and receiver, you can deflect the ball or force a bad pass.
  • Poke the Ball Free: Even if you’re not directly in position to make a steal, using your hands to poke at the ball or disrupt a dribble can force a mistake. This could lead to a teammate securing the ball or create a turnover.

Real-World Application:

Suppose you see the point guard about to pass to the wing. You position yourself in the passing lane, keeping your hands up and ready to intercept or deflect the ball. Your active hands not only disrupt the offense’s rhythm but also create a fast-break opportunity for your team.

6. Improve Reaction Time:
“Be Quick, Don’t Hurry“

Anticipation is only as good as your ability to act on it. You can predict where the ball is going, but if you can’t react quickly enough, the offense will still have the advantage. This is where the famous John Wooden quote, “Be quick, but don’t hurry,” comes into play. You want to react swiftly without sacrificing control. Quick reactions paired with smart decisions are the ultimate combination for effective defense.

How to Apply It:

  • Agility Drills: Work on your lateral quickness through drills that emphasize speed, change of direction, and explosiveness. Ladder drills, cone drills, and defensive slide drills will help you develop the foot speed needed to keep up with offensive players.
  • Reaction Time Drills: To hone your ability to react quickly to stimuli, incorporate drills that force you to respond to unexpected situations. One effective drill is having a coach or teammate hold up different numbers or colors, prompting you to make a decision about which direction to slide or move. Another option is to react to quick passes or movements from a coach simulating a ball-handler, sharpening your ability to respond in real time.

The essence of “Be quick, don’t hurry” is balancing speed with control. It’s about making fast decisions without rushing or losing your composure. Elite defenders understand this balance and use it to react efficiently, putting themselves in the right position without overcommitting or losing control of their movements.

Real-World Application:

If you’re anticipating a skip pass, your goal is to quickly jump into the passing lane. However, if you rush and overcommit, the offensive player might fake the pass or make a different move, leaving you out of position. Instead, focus on reacting quickly while staying balanced and under control, allowing you to adjust if the offense changes its action. You’re being quick without hurrying, maintaining the upper hand on defense.

7. Anticipation in Transition:
Predict the Next Pass

One of the most effective places to anticipate a steal is during an offensive transition or fast break. When players are moving quickly up the court, they are more likely to make rushed or predictable passes. This is a prime opportunity to read the offense, position yourself, and intercept a sloppy or “automatic” pass.

How to Apply It:

  • Position Yourself for the Interception: In transition, offensive players are often looking for the quickest path to the basket. They’re less likely to make complex passes and more likely to hit the open man with a simple pass. As a defender, you can anticipate where the ball is likely to go and position yourself for the interception. For example, if you’re trailing the play, you can look for an opportunity to jump a passing lane when the ball-handler swings the ball to a wing player.
  • Observe Player Movement: In transition, players tend to run in predictable patterns—either filling lanes for a fast break or trying to position themselves for an open shot. By anticipating these movements, you can better predict where the next pass will go. Once you’ve seen an opponent’s fast-break setup a few times, it becomes easier to anticipate their passing options and pick off a pass in the open court.

Real-World Application:

Suppose the opposing team is running a fast break, and you notice that their point guard always passes ahead to the player filling the lane on the right side. By recognizing this pattern, you can cheat toward the passing lane and be ready to pick off the pass. With your anticipation, you turn a defensive situation into a fast-break opportunity for your team.

The Future is NOW…

Developing anticipation skills in basketball is about much more than reacting to what’s happening in front of you. It’s about studying your opponents, understanding offensive patterns, reading body language and ball position, and reacting with speed and control. As Wayne Gretzky would say, you need to “skate to where the puck will be,” meaning that you should position yourself where the ball is going to go, not where it currently is.

Mastering anticipation involves:

  • Studying your opponent’s tendencies and team plays through game film.
  • Positioning yourself correctly to cut off driving lanes and intercept passes.
  • Reading body language and where the ball is held to predict the offensive player’s next move.
  • Using court awareness to recognize offensive spacing and player movement, especially after seeing their press break or set plays.
  • Staying active with your hands to deflect passes and disrupt the ball-handler.
  • Improving your reaction time through agility and decision-making drills, ensuring you can capitalize on what you anticipate.

By applying these principles and training them consistently, you’ll be able to predict the offense’s moves, generate steals, and create opportunities for your team. The ability to anticipate isn’t about luck—it’s a skill that can be developed and refined with the right mindset and dedication. So start putting in the work, stay mentally engaged, and begin “skating to where the ball will be” on every defensive possession.

Looking for more about Anticipation Skills? Check out this article by Coach Wheeler from last year. It has additional resources and a few more ideas for you to consider. Click here.

The Hoo-AH! Mindset: How to Add Elite Focus and Relentless Drive

The Hoo-AH! Mindset... are you ready?

In life and in sports, there are moments that test us to our core. Moments where we question whether we have what it takes to push through the exhaustion, the doubt, and the setbacks. It’s in those moments when we need something more than just effort—we need mental grit, relentless confidence, and a winning attitude. That’s where the Hoo-AH! Mindset comes in.

More than just a word, Hoo-AH! is a battle cry born from the elite training of the U.S. Army Rangers. It represents a mentality of readiness, strength, and collective unity that has fueled some of the world’s most highly trained and disciplined soldiers. Now, this powerful mindset can inspire your approach to life, competition, and personal challenges.

But what does Hoo-AH! really mean, where does it come from, and how can you apply it to your life to level up your performance? Let’s dive in.

The Origins of Hoo-AH!

The term Hoo-AH! is a staple of the U.S. Army and, more specifically, the Army Rangers—elite soldiers who are known for their unmatched discipline, endurance, and tactical prowess. It’s believed that Hoo-AH! originated as a form of acknowledgment, a way for Rangers to say “I Hear you, I Understand, and I Acknowledge the order (I’m ready).” Over time, it evolved into something much more powerful—a rallying cry that soldiers use to affirm their resilience and their readiness to take on any challenge.

Whether they’re being asked if they’re tired, if they’re ready to face a mission, or if they’ve accomplished something monumental, the response is always the same: Hoo-AH! It’s a word that signals not only physical toughness but a mental toughness that is unshakable. It’s a commitment to never back down, no matter how hard the situation gets.

Imagine how powerful it would be if we could apply this mindset to our own lives—whether on the court, in the office, or facing personal adversity.

What Hoo-AH! Means

At its core, Hoo-AH! is about more than just saying a word; it’s about adopting a mentality that embraces challenges, embodies discipline, and fosters an unstoppable drive toward success. Here’s what the Hoo-AH! mindset really stands for:

Readiness: When you live by the Hoo-AH! mindset, you are always ready. Ready for the game, ready for the challenge, ready to push your limits. It’s about staying mentally prepared to give your best effort at all times, even when you’re tired, and even when doubt creeps in.

Mental Resilience: Hoo-AH! is the verbal embodiment of mental resilience. It’s a way of telling the world, “I’m still here. I’m not giving up.” In sports, and in life, this means you face adversity head-on, knowing that your strength comes from your refusal to quit.

Confidence Under Pressure: The Hoo-AH! mindset means that when things get tough, you get tougher. It’s about finding that inner belief when everyone else is doubting you, when the game is on the line, or when you’re on the verge of breaking down. You respond with Hoo-AH!, signaling that you are not just surviving but thriving under pressure.

Team Unity and Support: Hoo-AH! is often a collective cry, a shout that unites a group of people around a common goal. In sports, it’s the team’s shared belief that they can overcome any obstacle when they work together. It’s about having each other’s backs and knowing that your effort contributes to something bigger than yourself.

What the Hoo-AH! Mindset Does

When you adopt the Hoo-AH! mindset, it transforms how you approach every aspect of your life. Here’s how:

It Builds Unstoppable Momentum: When you live by Hoo-AH!, you develop momentum that propels you forward. Whether you’re an athlete pushing through a tough training session or someone striving for personal growth, the more you embrace Hoo-AH!, the more you push yourself beyond your perceived limits.

It Cultivates Mental Toughness: The Hoo-AH! mindset fosters an internal toughness that keeps you standing tall even when you’re faced with adversity. You become the person who looks at challenges not with fear, but with anticipation and readiness. This mental toughness becomes your secret weapon in overcoming obstacles.

It Elevates Your Team: Just like the Army Rangers who use Hoo-AH! to rally each other in the toughest of missions, you can use this mindset to elevate those around you. Whether in sports, business, or life, your commitment to never give up will inspire your team, your coworkers, and your community to do the same.

It Develops Consistency: One of the greatest challenges in any pursuit—whether athletic, academic, or professional—is staying consistent. The Hoo-AH! mindset pushes you to show up every day, even when you don’t feel like it, even when the odds are stacked against you. It becomes your daily mantra for perseverance.

How to Add Hoo-AH! to Your Life

Ready to add the Hoo-AH! mindset to your life? Here’s how you can start making it part of your personal and competitive journey:

  1. Set a Challenge
    Start by setting a challenge that will push you outside your comfort zone. Whether it’s running an extra mile, completing an advanced drill, or pushing yourself in the weight room, give yourself a goal that feels difficult. When you complete it, shout Hoo-AH!—celebrate the victory, no matter how small.
  2. Use It as a Rallying Cry
    Whenever you’re faced with a tough situation, mentally or physically, use Hoo-AH! as your battle cry. Tell yourself you’re ready. If you’re working with a team, get them to join you in saying it. Make it a point of uniting everyone around the idea that you can accomplish more together than you can alone.
  3. Push Through Fatigue
    When you feel tired, don’t give in. Let Hoo-AH! be your answer to fatigue. The next time you feel exhausted during a workout, practice, or long workday, ask yourself if you’re tired. Then respond with a loud Hoo-AH! and keep pushing. You’ll be surprised at how much further you can go.
  4. Celebrate Effort, Not Just Wins
    Hoo-AH! is about celebrating your effort, not just the final score. Anytime you put in the work, especially when it feels difficult, you’ve earned the right to say Hoo-AH!. This mindset shifts your focus from outcomes to the process, making you stronger in the long run.
  5. Make It Part of Your Daily Routine
    Start each day with a Hoo-AH! mindset. When you wake up, remind yourself that you are ready for whatever the day brings. When you go to practice, walk into the gym with the knowledge that you’ll give it your all. The more you embed this attitude into your daily life, the more it becomes second nature.


The Hoo-AH! mindset is more than just a word—it’s a way of life. It’s about readiness, resilience, and unshakeable confidence. It’s taking responsibility for what you are going to do to improve your situation. It’s about uniting your team around a common goal and using your mental and physical toughness to push through any obstacle.

So the next time you’re asked if you’re ready for the challenge, or if you’re tired, or if you’ve got what it takes, respond with the only answer that matters: Hoo-AH!

Please leave a comment below. I’d love to hear how you have applied the Hoo-AH! Mindset in your own life or even stories of how Hoo-AH! has helped others succeed.

Imperfect Action: The First Secret to Building a Winning Mindset

Imperfect Action leads to progress

How many times have you found yourself waiting for the perfect moment to act? Maybe you’ve said, “I’ll start when I’m ready,” or “Once everything falls into place, I’ll go for it.” If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. The quest for perfection is a common trap that catches even the most ambitious among us. But here’s the truth: Perfection is a myth. Waiting for it is a surefire way to stay stuck.

Success doesn’t come from waiting for perfect conditions—it comes from taking imperfect action. The key to building a winning mindset is to take action now, even if you don’t feel 100% ready, even if it’s messy, uncertain, or uncomfortable. Today, we’ll explore why imperfect action is so powerful and how it’s the foundation of success.

Fear of Imperfection: The Invisible Chain

One of the biggest reasons people hesitate to take action is fear. Fear of failure. Fear of being judged. Fear of making mistakes. These are the invisible chains that hold you back from achieving greatness. The truth is, fear will always be there. It whispers in your ear, giving you every reason why you shouldn’t start or why you’re not ready.

But here’s the good news: Action is the antidote to fear. The moment you take that first step, no matter how imperfect, fear begins to lose its grip. Every time you act, you prove to yourself that you can handle uncertainty. You build confidence by doing, not by thinking or planning.

As Marshall Sylver, a motivational powerhouse, often says, “Do something, even if it’s wrong.” This isn’t a call to be reckless, but a reminder that waiting for perfection is a form of procrastination. The time to act is now, not tomorrow, not next week. When you take imperfect action, you shatter the illusion that everything has to be perfect before you move forward.

Progress Beats Perfection

The world loves to celebrate perfection. But those who have built successful, winning mindsets know that progress is far more important than perfection. They understand that taking small, consistent actions—no matter how messy—leads to greater success than waiting for everything to be flawless.

Think about the most successful athletes, entrepreneurs, or thought leaders. Do you think they waited for the perfect moment to take action? Absolutely not. They moved forward despite the uncertainty. They embraced imperfection, knowing that progress, not perfection, is what fuels momentum.

In my years of coaching and building teams, I’ve seen firsthand how the pursuit of perfection can paralyze players. They hesitate, waiting for the perfect opportunity to make a move, only to watch as their chance slips away. But those who act, even when things aren’t perfect, learn and grow faster than anyone else. Taking that first step—even if it’s imperfect—puts you on the path to progress.

Momentum is Everything

Imperfect action creates momentum, and momentum is a powerful force. It’s what separates winners from those who stay stuck on the sidelines. The first step you take may not be flawless, but it creates forward motion. And once you’re in motion, it’s easier to keep going. Momentum builds confidence, and confidence leads to even more action.

The biggest mistake you can make is to let perfectionism stop you from moving forward. Each time you take a small step, even if it’s not perfect, you gain real-world experience, solve problems, and refine your approach. Success loves speed—and imperfect action allows you to move faster. While others are still perfecting their plans, you’re already in the game, learning and improving.

Marshall Sylver talks about the importance of momentum in his programs, emphasizing the need to act fast. Once you have momentum on your side, it’s tough to stop. And how do you build momentum? By taking that first step, even if it’s imperfect. That step sets everything in motion, and before you know it, you’re making progress that would have seemed impossible if you had waited.

Clarity Comes Through Action

You don’t need to have everything figured out before you take action. In fact, clarity comes through action. Many people wait for a crystal-clear vision before they start, but the reality is, the path only becomes clearer once you begin. When you take the first step, the next one becomes more obvious. And after that, the next.

This is why action is so critical. Sitting on the sidelines, overthinking, or trying to perfect every detail won’t get you any closer to your goals. Taking imperfect action, on the other hand, allows you to learn as you go. It’s through doing that you gain the insights and experience necessary to refine your strategy. You adapt, adjust, and move forward. By the time others are still working on their plans, you’ve already gained the upper hand with real-world knowledge and experience.

As Coach, I’ve seen this play out in sports time and time again. Players who hesitate, waiting for the perfect moment to strike, often miss their chance. But those who step onto the court with confidence, willing to make mistakes, find their rhythm and create success through effort and adjustment.

The Power of Imperfect Action in the Present

One of the greatest gifts of imperfect action is that it allows you to operate in the present moment. You’re not waiting for a future that may or may not happen. You’re taking control of your life now. This sense of urgency is a game-changer. When you take action now, you send a message to yourself and the world: “I’m committed. I’m serious. I’m ready to win.”

Will you always feel ready? No. There will be moments of doubt. There will be times when you feel uncertain or unprepared. But if you wait until you feel perfectly ready, you’ll wait forever. The time is now, even if it’s messy, even if you don’t have all the answers. That’s the essence of imperfect action.

As Marshall Sylver emphasizes, “Take action now!” When you act in the present, you take control of your future. You stop being a spectator in your own life and start becoming a player.

Imperfect Action Builds Mental Toughness

Imperfect action also strengthens your mental toughness. It teaches you how to move forward, even when conditions aren’t ideal. It forces you to push through fear, uncertainty, and doubt. And over time, this process builds an unshakable resilience.

Mental toughness isn’t developed by waiting for things to be easy or perfect. It’s built in the trenches, in the moments when you feel uncomfortable or unsure, but keep going anyway. This ability to act despite the obstacles in your path is what separates winners from those who stay stuck.

The key is to embrace the discomfort that comes with imperfect action. Every time you push through, you become stronger. Every time you act, despite the fear, you get closer to your goal. You learn to thrive in uncertain conditions, and that makes you unstoppable.

The First Step is Everything

One Step at a Time by Coach Wheeler. Coming soon to Amazon.com. Leave a comment for a free digital copy.

Here’s the final piece of the puzzle: The first step is everything. You don’t need to see the whole path right now. You just need to take that first step, no matter how imperfect it is. Once you do, everything starts to fall into place. You learn. You adapt. You grow.

Imperfect action frees you from the pressure of knowing all the answers. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about moving forward, one step at a time. And the beauty of imperfect action is that it creates opportunities you wouldn’t have seen if you had waited.

So, what’s the one thing you can do today? What’s one small action you can take right now, even if it’s imperfect? Don’t wait for the perfect moment because that moment may never come. Act now, even if it’s messy. Because imperfect action beats perfect inaction every single time.

Success Favors the Bold

A winning mindset isn’t built on waiting for the right moment; it’s built on taking action, learning from mistakes, and moving forward despite the challenges. Success favors the bold, those willing to take imperfect action and adjust along the way.

So, what are you waiting for? The time to act is now. Take that first step today, no matter how imperfect. Because each imperfect step brings you closer to your goal. And in the end, that’s what winning is all about—moving forward.

Let’s get to work.

Control the Controllables

The Secret to Unlocking Your Full Potential in Basketball and Beyond

Coach Wheeler

In the high-pressure world of basketball, where every second counts and every decision matters, players and coaches alike are often confronted with a multitude of challenges. These challenges can range from the unpredictability of the opposition to the ever-changing dynamics of the game itself. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed when so many factors seem beyond your control. But what if the secret to success wasn’t about controlling everything but instead about focusing on the things you can control?

Welcome to the concept of “Control the Controllables“—a powerful mindset that can transform your approach to the game, your performance on the court, and even your life outside of basketball. At its core, controlling the controllables is about shifting your focus from external factors (like referees’ calls, weather conditions, or the skill level of your opponent) to the internal factors that you can directly influence (like your effort, attitude, and preparation). This mindset not only helps you play better but also builds resilience, reduces stress, and ultimately leads to a more consistent and fulfilling performance.

The Power of Focus: Why Controlling the Controllables Matters

Let’s face it: in basketball, as in life, not everything is within your control. There will be days when the referees make questionable calls, the crowd noise is deafening, or your shot just isn’t falling. It’s in these moments of adversity that the “Control the Controllables” mindset becomes your greatest ally.

Consider this: when you focus on things outside your control, you waste energy and mental bandwidth on factors that are often unpredictable and uncontrollable. This can lead to frustration, anxiety, and even a decline in performance. On the other hand, by honing in on what you can control—your hustle, your preparation, your response to challenges—you become more grounded, more confident, and more effective.

In basketball, this mindset translates to better on-court decisions, more consistent performance, and a greater ability to stay calm under pressure. Off the court, it can help you manage stress, improve your relationships, and achieve your goals more efficiently. The beauty of this approach is that it doesn’t require you to be the most talented player on the court; it only requires you to be disciplined and focused on what truly matters.

Four Pillars to Control the Controllables:
Effort, Fundamentals, Preparation, and Conditioning

To help you put this concept into practice, let’s break down the controllables into four broad categories: Effort & Attitude, Fundamentals & Skills, Game Preparation & Strategy, and Physical Conditioning & Health. By mastering these areas, you’ll be well on your way to becoming the best version of yourself, both on and off the court.

  1. Effort & Attitude
    The first pillar is perhaps the most critical. Effort and attitude are the foundation upon which all other controllables are built. No matter how skilled you are, without the right effort and attitude, you’ll never reach your full potential. The best part? Both are 100% within your control.

Hustle on every play: Hustle is a reflection of your commitment to the game. It shows that you’re willing to outwork your opponent and seize every opportunity, whether it’s diving for a loose ball or sprinting back on defense.

Positive body language: How you carry yourself on the court can influence not only your mindset but also that of your teammates. Positive body language shows confidence and resilience, even in the face of adversity.

Staying composed under pressure: Basketball is a game of runs. Staying calm and composed when the pressure is on can be the difference between winning and losing.

By focusing on your effort and attitude, you set the tone for your performance. Remember, while you can’t control how your opponent plays, you can always control how hard you play and how you respond to challenges.

  1. Fundamentals & Skills
    The second pillar focuses on the fundamentals—those basic yet crucial skills that are often overlooked in favor of flashier aspects of the game. But here’s the truth: the fundamentals are what win games.

Proper shooting mechanics: Consistent shooting mechanics lead to better accuracy and more reliable scoring. It’s not just about making the shot; it’s about making the shot the right way.

Ball handling skills: Strong ball-handling skills allow you to protect the ball, create space, and make plays. This is especially important under pressure, where turnovers can be costly.

Defensive stance and footwork: Defense wins championships. By mastering your stance and footwork, you can become a lockdown defender who frustrates even the best offensive players.

These are all areas you can control through practice and repetition. The more you focus on mastering the fundamentals, the more reliable and confident you’ll become in your overall game.

  1. Game Preparation & Strategy
    Preparation is often what separates the good from the great. The third pillar, Game Preparation & Strategy, emphasizes the importance of being mentally and physically ready for every game.

Knowing the game plan: Understanding your team’s strategy and how you fit into it is crucial. It allows you to execute plays effectively and make adjustments as needed.

Scouting the opponent: Knowledge is power. By studying your opponent, you can anticipate their moves and exploit their weaknesses.

Executing offensive sets: The ability to run plays effectively requires discipline and focus. It’s not just about knowing the play; it’s about executing it to perfection.

Preparation is something you have complete control over. By being diligent in your game preparation, you increase your chances of success and put yourself in a position to win.

  1. Physical Conditioning & Health
    The final pillar is Physical Conditioning & Health. Your body is your most important asset as a basketball player, and taking care of it should be a top priority.

Consistent strength training: Building strength helps you compete physically and reduces your risk of injury. It also enhances your ability to perform explosive movements, like jumping and sprinting.

Proper nutrition and hydration: What you put into your body directly affects your performance. By fueling yourself with the right nutrients and staying hydrated, you ensure that you have the energy and stamina to compete at your best.

Injury prevention exercises: Staying healthy is key to staying on the court. Incorporating injury prevention exercises into your routine helps protect you from common basketball injuries.

Your physical condition is entirely within your control. By taking care of your body, you ensure that you can perform at a high level throughout the season and beyond.

Applying the “Control the Controllables” Mindset Beyond Basketball

While the concept of controlling the controllables is highly effective in basketball, its application extends far beyond the court. Whether you’re a student, a professional, or someone simply trying to navigate the challenges of life, this mindset can be a game-changer.

In your personal life, you can control your response to situations, your work ethic, and your commitment to your goals. In your professional life, you can control how prepared you are for meetings, how you interact with colleagues, and how you handle deadlines. By focusing on what you can control, you reduce stress, increase your productivity, and build a more positive and resilient mindset.

Don’t Just Control the Controllables: MASTER THEM!

The beauty of the “Control the Controllables” mindset lies in its simplicity and effectiveness. It’s not about trying to control everything—it’s about focusing on the aspects of your game and your life that you can directly influence. By mastering the controllables, you empower yourself to become the best version of yourself, both on and off the court.

As you continue on your journey as an athlete or coach, remember that your success is not solely determined by external factors. It’s shaped by your effort, your attitude, your preparation, and your commitment to the fundamentals. These are the things you can control, and by mastering them, you set yourself up for success.

So, the next time you step onto the court or face a challenge in your life, ask yourself: “Am I controlling the controllables?” Focus on what you can influence, and let go of the rest. In doing so, you’ll not only improve your game—you’ll also unlock your full potential and become a true champion, both on the court and in life.

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Stay focused, stay disciplined, and keep controlling the controllables. Your journey to greatness starts here.

The Power of Struggle Time:

Why Embracing the Struggle Leads to Growth

In today’s fast-paced world, where immediate results are often prioritized over long-term growth, the concept of “struggle time” can seem counterintuitive. As a teacher and coach, I’ve found that one of the most challenging aspects of my role is convincing administrators, parents, and especially students or players, that struggling is not just okay—it’s essential.

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The video shared in a recent Facebook post (link below) illustrates the profound impact of embracing struggle. But what exactly is “struggle time,” and why is it so crucial?

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Understanding “Struggle Time”

“Struggle time” refers to the period during which an individual is faced with a challenging task, one that is not immediately solvable. This is the time when frustration, confusion, and even failure might occur. It’s the time when the mind is pushed to its limits, where the easy solutions don’t work, and where one is forced to think critically, creatively, and persistently to overcome obstacles.

In educational and athletic contexts, struggle time is often viewed as a negative experience. Many believe that if a student or player is struggling, it means they are not understanding the material or that they are not performing well. However, this mindset overlooks the fundamental truth that growth occurs in the struggle. It is in these moments of difficulty that true learning and development happen.

The Value of Struggle in Learning

Research in educational psychology supports the idea that struggle is a critical component of learning. When students or athletes are presented with challenges that are slightly beyond their current abilities, they are forced to engage more deeply with the material or skill. This deeper engagement leads to a more profound understanding and mastery.

Consider the concept of “desirable difficulties,” coined by psychologist Robert Bjork. Desirable difficulties are challenges that make learning harder in the short term but improve long-term retention and performance. When students are given time to struggle through a problem, they are more likely to remember the solution and understand the underlying principles. This is because the effort required to overcome the difficulty creates stronger neural connections in the brain.

Struggle in Sports: Building Resilience and Character

In sports, struggle time is just as critical. It’s easy to celebrate the victories, the moments of triumph where everything comes together. But it’s in the moments of struggle—when the game isn’t going well, when the training is grueling, when the competition is fierce—that athletes develop the resilience and mental toughness needed to succeed.

Take the story of Michael Jordan, widely regarded as one of the greatest basketball players of all time. Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team as a sophomore. He didn’t make the team, and that struggle drove him to work harder, to push himself beyond what he thought was possible. Jordan himself has said that it was the struggles, the failures, and the challenges that made him the player he became.

Struggle time teaches athletes to persevere, to keep pushing when things are tough. It teaches them that failure is not the end but a stepping stone to success. It builds character, resilience, and a mindset that welcomes challenges as opportunities for growth.

Overcoming the Resistance to Struggle Time

Despite the clear benefits of struggle time, there is often resistance to embracing it. In the classroom, parents and administrators may worry that students who are struggling are falling behind. They may push for easier tasks or more assistance, thinking that this will help the student succeed. In sports, coaches may feel pressured to focus on winning rather than development, leading to a reluctance to let players experience the struggle.

This resistance is understandable. We all want to see our students and athletes succeed. We want to protect them from failure and frustration. But in doing so, we may be doing them a disservice. By shielding them from struggle, we deny them the opportunity to develop the skills and mindset they need to overcome challenges in the future.

To overcome this resistance, it’s important to reframe the way we think about struggle. Instead of viewing it as a sign of failure, we need to see it as a necessary part of the learning process. We need to communicate to students, athletes, parents, and administrators that struggle is not something to be feared but something to be embraced.

Practical Strategies for Implementing Struggle Time

So, how can we, as teachers and coaches, effectively implement struggle time in our classrooms and on our teams? Here are some practical strategies:

  1. Normalize Struggle: Start by normalizing struggle in your environment. Talk openly about the challenges you face and how you’ve overcome them. Share stories of famous individuals who have struggled and persevered. Encourage students and athletes to share their own struggles and how they’ve worked through them.
  2. Create a Safe Environment: For struggle time to be effective, students and athletes need to feel safe. They need to know that it’s okay to make mistakes and that failure is part of the process. Create an environment where effort is valued as much as success, and where individuals are encouraged to take risks and push themselves.
  3. Provide Appropriate Challenges: It’s important to provide challenges that are appropriate for the individual’s current level. The tasks should be difficult enough to require effort but not so difficult that they become overwhelming. As students and athletes grow, gradually increase the difficulty of the tasks to continue pushing them out of their comfort zones.
  4. Offer Support, Not Solutions: When students or athletes are struggling, it’s natural to want to step in and help. But instead of providing the solution, offer support that helps them find the solution themselves. Ask guiding questions, provide hints, and encourage them to keep trying. This approach helps them develop problem-solving skills and builds confidence in their ability to overcome challenges.
  5. Celebrate the Struggle: Finally, celebrate the struggle itself. Recognize and reward the effort and perseverance that individuals show, regardless of the outcome. This reinforces the idea that the process of struggling is valuable and worth celebrating.

The Long-Term Benefits of Embracing Struggle

When we allow students and athletes to experience struggle time, we are helping them develop skills and qualities that will benefit them far beyond the classroom or the sports field. These include:

  • Resilience: The ability to bounce back from setbacks and keep going even when things are tough.
  • Critical Thinking: The ability to analyze problems, think creatively, and develop solutions.
  • Perseverance: The determination to keep working towards a goal, even in the face of challenges.
  • Self-Confidence: The belief in one’s own ability to overcome obstacles and achieve success.

These are the qualities that will help individuals succeed in all areas of life. Whether they are facing challenges in their careers, their personal lives, or in their communities, the skills and mindset developed through struggle time will serve them well.

Conclusion: The Power of Struggle

The video shared in the Facebook post is a powerful reminder of the value of struggle. It shows that when we give students and athletes the time and space to struggle, we are not setting them up for failure—we are setting them up for success. By embracing struggle time, we help them develop the skills, mindset, and character they need to thrive.

Here is another example from Coach Calipari (back when he coached at Kentucky)… check it out!

As a teacher and coach, it’s my job to guide my students and athletes through the challenges they face. But it’s also my job to let them struggle, to let them experience the frustration, the confusion, and the effort that are necessary for true growth. It’s not always easy, and it’s not always popular, but it’s one of the most important things I can do to help them become the best versions of themselves.

So, the next time you see a student or athlete struggling, resist the urge to step in and fix it for them. Instead, offer support, encouragement, and the time they need to work through the challenge. In doing so, you’ll be helping them develop into resilient, confident, and capable individuals who are ready to take on whatever life throws their way.

Does Winning Matter? Yes or No?

Winning Matters... Yes or No?

Winning. The word itself conjures images of trophies hoisted high, celebratory shouts echoing through arenas, and the rush of adrenaline that accompanies victory. But beneath the surface of this thrilling experience lies a question that has sparked countless debates in locker rooms, boardrooms, and classrooms alike: Does winning really matter? Is it the ultimate goal we should all strive for, or is it just one piece of a much larger puzzle? The answer to this question is neither straightforward nor universal. It depends on the lens through which we view life, competition, and personal fulfillment. Let’s dive into both perspectives to uncover a more nuanced understanding of what winning truly means.

The Case for “Yes”

1. Winning Validates Hard Work and Effort

One of the most compelling arguments in favor of winning is that it serves as a validation of hard work, effort, and dedication. When an athlete, a team, or even a business strives tirelessly toward a goal, victory becomes the ultimate acknowledgment of their sacrifices. It’s the tangible result of countless hours of training, strategizing, and overcoming adversity. Winning, in this sense, isn’t just about the end result; it’s about the journey. The feeling of triumph is a reward for perseverance, and it’s a powerful motivator that can push individuals and teams to reach new heights.

2. Winning Builds Confidence and Self-Esteem

Success breeds confidence. When you win, you reinforce a belief in your own abilities. This boost in self-esteem can have far-reaching effects, both in and out of the competitive arena. In sports, a winning season can transform a struggling team into a powerhouse, instilling a winning mentality that permeates every practice and game. In business, a successful product launch or a sales milestone can give a company the confidence to take on new challenges and innovate further. The positive feedback loop created by winning can be a driving force for future successes.

3. Winning Brings Recognition and Opportunities

In many fields, winning is synonymous with recognition. A gold medal at the Olympics, a championship ring, or a prestigious award can open doors to new opportunities, both professionally and personally. Winning can attract sponsorships, media attention, and even financial rewards. It can also serve as a platform to inspire others, particularly younger generations who look up to winners as role models. This recognition can be a catalyst for further success, creating a legacy that extends beyond the individual or team.

4. Winning Teaches Important Life Lessons

Winning isn’t just about the immediate glory; it’s also about the lessons learned along the way. The pursuit of victory often teaches discipline, focus, teamwork, and resilience. These are qualities that extend beyond the confines of the competition and can be applied to various aspects of life. The process of striving to win requires setting goals, making sacrifices, and staying committed, all of which are valuable skills in personal and professional development. In this way, winning can be a powerful teacher, shaping character and preparing individuals for the challenges of life.

The Case for “No”

1. Winning Isn’t Everything

As important as winning can be, it’s crucial to recognize that it’s not the only thing that matters. The pursuit of victory at all costs can lead to negative outcomes, such as burnout, unethical behavior, and damaged relationships. When winning becomes the sole focus, it can overshadow other important aspects of competition, such as personal growth, enjoyment, and sportsmanship. In some cases, an obsession with winning can even be detrimental to mental health, as individuals may place undue pressure on themselves to succeed.

2. The Value of Losing

While winning is often celebrated, losing also has intrinsic value. Failure can be a powerful teacher, offering lessons that are just as important as those learned in victory. Losing can foster humility, resilience, and a deeper understanding of one’s strengths and weaknesses. It can also provide an opportunity for reflection and growth, prompting individuals to reassess their strategies and make necessary adjustments. In this way, losing can be a stepping stone to future success, helping individuals build the mental toughness needed to persevere in the face of adversity.

3. Winning Can Be Fleeting

One of the challenges of focusing solely on winning is that it can be a fleeting experience. Today’s victory can quickly be overshadowed by tomorrow’s defeat, leaving individuals and teams constantly chasing the next win. This can create a cycle of temporary satisfaction, where the joy of winning is short-lived and quickly replaced by the pressure to win again. In contrast, focusing on the process, rather than the outcome, can lead to more sustained fulfillment. When individuals prioritize personal growth, learning, and enjoyment, they can find satisfaction in the journey, regardless of the outcome.

4. Winning Isn’t Always Fair

In some cases, winning isn’t always a true reflection of effort or ability. External factors, such as luck, timing, or bias, can influence the outcome of a competition. This can be particularly disheartening when individuals or teams give their all, only to be defeated by circumstances beyond their control. In these situations, placing too much emphasis on winning can lead to frustration and disillusionment. It’s important to recognize that the journey itself holds value, and that success is not always defined by the final score.

The Balance: A Satisfactory Answer

So, does winning matter? The answer is both yes and no, depending on how we choose to define and approach winning.

Winning does matter—it can validate effort, build confidence, and open doors to new opportunities. It teaches valuable life lessons and provides a sense of accomplishment that can drive future successes. For many, the pursuit of victory is a key motivator that pushes them to achieve their best.

However, winning isn’t everything. It shouldn’t be the sole measure of success, nor should it overshadow other important aspects of competition and life. Losing, too, has value, offering lessons in resilience, humility, and personal growth. The journey toward winning can be just as meaningful as the victory itself, and individuals who focus solely on the outcome may miss out on the deeper rewards that come from the process.

Ultimately, a balanced perspective on winning involves recognizing its importance without becoming consumed by it. It’s about striving for excellence while also appreciating the journey, the lessons learned, and the personal growth that comes from both winning and losing. It’s about finding satisfaction in the pursuit of your goals, regardless of the outcome, and understanding that true success is not always defined by the final score.

In conclusion, winning does matter, but it’s not the only thing that matters. The pursuit of victory can be a powerful force for growth and achievement, but it should be balanced with a recognition of the intrinsic value found in the process, the lessons learned in defeat, and the broader context of life beyond the competition. By embracing this balanced perspective, we can find greater fulfillment and long-term success, both in the arena and beyond.

Locus of Control: Key to Building a Winning Mindset

Locus of Control

In the pursuit of greatness, whether in sports, business, or personal development, one of the most critical yet often overlooked factors is the concept of locus of control. This psychological framework is a cornerstone for building a winning mindset, allowing individuals to navigate challenges, seize opportunities, and maintain resilience in the face of adversity. Understanding and harnessing your locus of control can be the difference between a life defined by empowerment or one constrained by external forces.

What is Locus of Control?

Locus of control is a term coined by psychologist Julian Rotter in the 1950s. It refers to the degree to which individuals believe they have control over the outcomes of events in their lives. This belief system falls on a continuum between two extremes: internal control and external control.

Internal Locus of Control: Individuals with strong internal control believe that their actions, decisions, and efforts directly influence the results they experience. They see themselves as the architects of their destiny, understanding that their choices have a significant impact on their success or failure.

External Locus of Control: Conversely, those with strong external control attribute their outcomes to factors beyond their control, such as luck, fate, or the actions of others. These individuals often feel like pawns in a game, with little influence over their circumstances.

While most people fall somewhere in between these two extremes, the prevailing orientation of your locus of control can have profound implications on your mindset and approach to challenges.

The Connection Between Locus of Control and a Winning Mindset

A winning mindset is characterized by optimism, resilience, determination, and a relentless pursuit of goals. It is the mental foundation upon which success is built. The locus of control plays a crucial role in shaping this mindset by influencing how you perceive and react to the events around you.

Empowerment vs. Victimhood:

internal versus external locus of control

Individuals with internal control tend to adopt an empowering mindset. They see challenges as opportunities to learn and grow, believing that they have the power to influence the outcome. This sense of control fuels their motivation, driving them to take action even when faced with obstacles.
On the other hand, those with external control often fall into a victimhood mentality. They view challenges as insurmountable barriers imposed by external forces, which leads to feelings of helplessness and a lack of initiative. This mindset can create a self-fulfilling prophecy, where the lack of effort results in failure, reinforcing the belief that success is out of reach.

Responsibility and Accountability:

A key component of a winning mindset is taking responsibility for one’s actions and outcomes. Those with an internal locus of control are more likely to accept responsibility for their successes and failures. This accountability allows them to learn from their mistakes, make adjustments, and improve over time.
In contrast, an external locus of control can lead to a tendency to blame others or external circumstances for one’s failures. This deflection of responsibility hinders personal growth and prevents individuals from making the necessary changes to achieve their goals.

Resilience and Adaptability:

Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and continue pursuing goals despite adversity. An internal locus of control fosters resilience by reinforcing the belief that you have the power to overcome challenges. This mindset encourages adaptability, as individuals are more likely to see setbacks as temporary and within their control to change.
Those with an external locus of control may struggle with resilience, as they are more likely to view setbacks as permanent or out of their control. This can lead to a sense of defeatism and a reluctance to try again after failure.
Goal Setting and Achievement:

Individuals with an internal locus of control are more proactive in setting and pursuing goals. They believe that their efforts will directly impact their ability to achieve these goals, which motivates them to work hard and stay focused.
Conversely, those with an external locus of control may be less likely to set ambitious goals or put in the effort required to achieve them, believing that external factors will ultimately determine their success.

Real-Life Examples of Locus of Control in Action

To truly understand the impact of locus of control on building a winning mindset, it helps to look at real-life examples of individuals and scenarios where this concept has played a pivotal role.

Example 1: Michael Jordan’s Internal Locus of Control

Michael Jordan, widely regarded as one of the greatest basketball players of all time, is a prime example of someone with a strong internal locus of control. Jordan believed that his success was directly tied to his work ethic, determination, and relentless pursuit of excellence. His famous quote, “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed,” reflects his internal locus of control. Jordan understood that his failures were stepping stones to success and that he had the power to shape his destiny through his actions.

Example 2: The Rise of J.K. Rowling

J.K. Rowling, the author of the Harry Potter series, also exemplifies the power of an internal locus of control. Before becoming a literary sensation, Rowling faced numerous rejections from publishers and struggled with personal challenges, including financial hardship. However, she believed in her ability to succeed and continued to persevere despite the setbacks. Her internal locus of control fueled her determination to keep writing and pursuing her dream, ultimately leading to one of the most successful book series in history.

Example 3: The Dangers of an External Locus of Control in Sports

In contrast, consider the example of athletes who blame external factors for their failures—such as referees, weather conditions, or the actions of opponents. This external locus of control can lead to a defeatist attitude, where athletes feel that their success is out of their hands. This mindset can prevent them from taking the necessary steps to improve their performance, leading to a cycle of underachievement.

Example 4: The Business World and Locus of Control

In the business world, leaders with an internal locus of control are more likely to innovate, take calculated risks, and drive their companies forward. They understand that their decisions and strategies play a crucial role in the success or failure of their organization. On the other hand, leaders with an external locus of control may be more risk-averse, often waiting for external conditions to improve before taking action. This can lead to missed opportunities and stagnation.

Cultivating an Internal Locus of Control for a Winning Mindset

Building a winning mindset requires cultivating an internal locus of control. While some individuals may naturally lean towards an internal or external locus of control, it is possible to shift your mindset through conscious effort and practice.

Self-Reflection and Awareness:

The first step in shifting your locus of control is to become aware of your current mindset. Reflect on how you typically respond to challenges and setbacks. Do you tend to take responsibility for your actions, or do you blame external factors? Awareness is the first step towards change.

Focus on What You Can Control:

Start by identifying the aspects of your life and goals that are within your control. This could include your attitude, effort, and the decisions you make. By focusing on what you can control, you empower yourself to take action and influence the outcomes you desire.

Set Achievable Goals:

Break down your larger goals into smaller, achievable steps. This not only makes your goals more manageable but also reinforces the belief that your actions directly impact your progress. Each small victory will strengthen your internal locus of control.

Take Responsibility for Your Actions:

Embrace accountability for both your successes and failures. When you succeed, acknowledge the role your effort played in achieving that success. When you fail, analyze what you could have done differently and use it as a learning experience. This approach fosters a growth mindset and reinforces the belief that you have control over your outcomes.

Surround Yourself with Positive Influences:

The people you surround yourself with can have a significant impact on your mindset. Seek out individuals who embody internal control and a winning mindset. Their attitude and approach to challenges will inspire you to adopt a similar perspective.

Practice Resilience and Adaptability:

Life is full of unexpected challenges, but how you respond to them defines your success. Cultivate resilience by viewing setbacks as temporary and within your power to overcome. Develop adaptability by being open to new strategies and solutions when faced with obstacles.

Celebrate Your Progress:

Finally, take time to celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Recognizing your progress reinforces the belief that your actions have a direct impact on your success, further solidifying your internal control of your mindset.

The Last Word on …
Locus of Control in Building a Winning Mindset

Your locus of control is a powerful determinant of your mindset and ultimately your success. By cultivating an internal locus of control, you empower yourself to take charge of your destiny, embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, and maintain resilience in the face of adversity. This mindset is the foundation upon which greatness is built, enabling you to achieve your goals and live a life defined by purpose and fulfillment.

In the journey to building a winning mindset, remember that you are the author of your story. The decisions you make, the effort you put in, and the resilience you demonstrate will determine the outcome. Embrace your power, take control, and watch as you turn your dreams into reality.

Ericksonian Stories (ES): Unleashing the Power of Conversational Hypnosis Stories

A Key Method for Building a Winning Mindset

In a world inundated with relentless stimulation and constant pressures, the quest for mental resilience and a winning mindset has never been more crucial. At the heart of this journey is the transformative power of storytelling, particularly through the lens of Ericksonian stories (ES). As a coach, speaker, and curator of narratives that empower and enlighten, I’ve integrated the essence of Ericksonian principles into stories designed to subtly shift thinking patterns and inspire profound personal growth. In this post, I will delve into why Ericksonian Stories are instrumental in building a winning mindset, and how they can be a game-changer in your personal and professional life.

Ericksonian Stories

The Foundations of Ericksonian Conversational Hypnosis

Before understanding the impact of Ericksonian Stories, it is essential to grasp the basics of the methodology it employs. Developed by Dr. Milton H. Erickson, Ericksonian conversational hypnosis is a psychotherapeutic approach that is radically different from traditional hypnosis. Unlike the directive techniques of classical hypnosis, Erickson’s method is characterized by its gentle, permissive, and often indirect approach. Erickson believed that the unconscious mind is always listening and that it could be guided toward healing and change through the use of stories, metaphors, and indirect suggestions. This method bypasses the conscious mind’s natural defenses, making it easier to influence deep-seated beliefs and behaviors without resistance.

In Ericksonian hypnosis, the focus is on engaging the unconscious mind in a way that feels natural and unforced. Rather than issuing commands or directives, the storyteller uses carefully crafted narratives that resonate on a personal level, allowing listeners to draw their own conclusions and insights. This approach empowers individuals to discover solutions and new perspectives on their own terms, fostering a sense of ownership and internal motivation—critical components of a winning mindset.

Why Storytelling Matters in Building a Winning Mindset

Storytelling is one of the oldest and most powerful tools for learning and personal development. Stories are not just a form of entertainment; they are a means of transmitting knowledge, values, and lessons across generations. When we hear a story, we don’t just listen passively; we engage emotionally and intellectually, placing ourselves in the narrative, relating to the characters, and internalizing the message.

A winning mindset is not just about motivation or positivity; it’s about having the right mental frameworks and attitudes that enable you to overcome obstacles, learn from failures, and keep pushing forward toward your goals. Stories, particularly those designed with Ericksonian principles, help shape these mental frameworks by embedding powerful, transformative ideas in a way that feels organic and self-driven.

How Ericksonian Stories Foster a Winning Mindset

Now that we understand the mechanics behind Ericksonian conversational hypnosis, let’s explore how these stories can be pivotal in developing a winning mindset.

Cultivating Resilience Through Metaphor and Symbolism

One of the key elements of Ericksonian Stories is the use of metaphors and symbols. These tools allow listeners to connect with complex ideas on an intuitive level. For example, a story about a tree that bends but doesn’t break during a storm can symbolize resilience. As you listen, you unconsciously start to internalize the message that flexibility and adaptability are strengths. Over time, this lesson becomes part of your mental toolkit, ready to be applied when you face challenges in real life.

Encouraging Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

Ericksonian Stories are designed to prompt self-reflection. Rather than offering explicit advice, they invite you to consider your own experiences and perspectives. For instance, a story about a character who overcomes fear by gradually facing it in small steps might inspire you to think about areas in your life where you can take similar incremental steps toward growth. This process of introspection is vital for building a winning mindset, as it encourages continuous self-improvement and a deeper understanding of your motivations and behaviors.

Reframing Challenges as Opportunities

A critical aspect of a winning mindset is the ability to reframe challenges as opportunities for growth. Ericksonian Stories often feature protagonists who face significant obstacles but ultimately find ways to turn these challenges into stepping stones toward success. By listening to these narratives, you begin to see your own struggles in a new light—not as insurmountable barriers, but as opportunities to learn, adapt, and emerge stronger.

Enhancing Creativity and Problem-Solving Skills

Creativity and problem-solving are essential components of a winning mindset. Ericksonian Stories stimulate these abilities by presenting scenarios that require creative thinking and unconventional solutions. As you engage with these stories, your mind naturally begins to explore new ways of approaching problems, both within the narrative and in your own life. This enhanced creativity can lead to innovative solutions and a greater capacity to navigate complex situations.

Building Confidence and Self-Efficacy

Confidence is a cornerstone of a winning mindset. Ericksonian Stories often depict characters who start with self-doubt but gradually build confidence through their experiences. As you identify with these characters, you begin to absorb their journeys as your own, bolstering your belief in your ability to achieve your goals. This increase in self-efficacy—your belief in your ability to influence events and outcomes in your life—is crucial for taking bold actions and persisting in the face of adversity.

Reducing Stress and Enhancing Focus

The indirect, soothing nature of Ericksonian Stories also serves to reduce stress and enhance focus. A calm mind is more resilient, better able to concentrate, and more effective in decision-making. By regularly engaging with these stories, you cultivate a mental environment that is conducive to maintaining a winning mindset, even in high-pressure situations.

Choosing the Right Ericksonian Story for You

With a better understanding of how Ericksonian Stories can contribute to a winning mindset, the next step is to choose a story that resonates with your current needs or challenges. At our podcast page, you’ll find a variety of stories categorized by theme, such as overcoming fear, building confidence, or fostering creativity. Each story is designed with specific mental and emotional benefits in mind, allowing you to select one that aligns with where you are in your personal growth journey.

Here’s how to choose your first story:

Identify Your Current Challenge: Consider what aspect of your mindset or life you want to improve. Are you struggling with confidence? Facing a difficult decision? Looking to boost your resilience? Knowing your challenge will help you select a story that speaks directly to your needs.

Browse by Theme: On my podcast and YouTube channel, you’ll find stories listed by themes that address common challenges and goals. Read the descriptions and see which story resonates with you.

Start with What Feels Right: Sometimes, the best approach is to trust your intuition. If a particular story title or description catches your eye, start there. The narrative that draws you in is likely the one that will have the most impact.

Integrating Ericksonian Stories into Your Routine

To fully harness the power of Ericksonian Stories in building a winning mindset, consider integrating them into your daily or weekly routine. Here are some tips for making the most of these narratives:

Listen During Quiet Times: Find a time when you can listen without distractions—perhaps during your morning routine, a lunch break, or before bed. This will allow you to fully engage with the story and absorb its lessons.

Reflect After Listening: Take a few minutes after each story to reflect on what it meant to you. How does the story relate to your life? What insights did you gain? This reflection is where the real growth happens.

Discuss with Others: Sharing and discussing the stories with friends, colleagues, or a coach can deepen your understanding and reinforce the lessons. It’s also an excellent way to build a supportive community focused on personal growth.

Revisit Stories as Needed: Sometimes, a story will resonate differently at different points in your life. Don’t hesitate to revisit stories that you’ve heard before; you may find new insights that you missed the first time.

The Broader Impact of Ericksonian Stories

While the primary goal of Ericksonian Stories is to foster a winning mindset, their impact can extend far beyond personal growth. These stories can also influence how you interact with others, approach your career, and contribute to your community. By cultivating a mindset rooted in resilience, creativity, and confidence, you’re better equipped to inspire and lead those around you. Whether you’re a leader in your field, an entrepreneur, a parent, or someone simply striving to be their best self, the principles embedded in these stories can serve as a foundation for broader positive change.

Some final thoughts:
The Journey Toward a Winning Mindset

Building a winning mindset is a journey—one that requires ongoing effort, reflection, and growth. Ericksonian Stories offer a powerful tool to support this journey, providing the mental and emotional nourishment needed to overcome obstacles and achieve your goals. By engaging with these narratives, you not only entertain and educate yourself but also plant the seeds for lasting personal transformation.

I invite you to explore the articles related to these Ericksonian stories at www.CoachWheeler.com or listen to the stories via our podcast on Spotify and YouTube so you can begin integrating them into your life. Whether you’re just starting on your path to personal growth or looking to deepen your existing practices, Ericksonian Stories can be a catalyst for change, helping you to cultivate the mindset needed to win in every aspect of life. Let’s embark on this journey together—one story at a time.

Levels of Winning . . .

with Coach Dave Wheeler

Taking over a losing team is like inheriting a ship with holes in the hull—it’s taking on water, it’s slow, and it feels like it’s on the verge of sinking. As a coach, you’re tasked with not only plugging those holes but also getting that ship moving swiftly toward victory. It’s not a small challenge. The team comes with bad habits, weak skills, and mental control issues—focus, emotional control, frustration, anger—all of which have kept them anchored in a cycle of losing. Their effort and conditioning levels are probably less than ideal, too.

But let’s be clear: losing sucks. There’s no sugar-coating it. Whether you’re a coach or an athlete, repeated losses can be demoralizing, leading to doubt and frustration. The temptation to give up is real, but the journey from a losing culture to a winning one is not just possible—it’s achievable if you commit to a structured approach. This journey can be broken down into what I call “The Levels of Winning,” a progressive roadmap that takes a team from the depths of defeat to the heights of consistent victory.

Wheeler's Winning Basketball Pyramid

Level C:
Improving Focus, Conditioning, and Skills

The first step in transforming a losing team is to focus on the fundamentals: Mental Focus, Conditioning, and Key Skills. At this stage, the goal is not necessarily to win games but to set the foundation for future success.

Mental Focus

One of the most critical issues in a losing team is a lack of focus. Players may have developed bad habits, such as not listening during practice, losing concentration during games, or getting easily distracted by emotions or external factors. As a coach, your first priority is to instill a sense of discipline and concentration in your players. This can be achieved through structured practices that emphasize attention to detail and mental toughness. For instance, drills that require players to react quickly to changing situations can help improve focus and decision-making.

Conditioning

Another common issue with losing teams is poor conditioning. A team that lacks endurance will falter in the final minutes of a game, no matter how well they play initially. Improving conditioning is non-negotiable. This involves not only physical training but also mental conditioning—teaching players to push through fatigue and stay mentally sharp when they’re physically exhausted. Implementing high-intensity interval training (HIIT) or endurance-based drills can help build the physical stamina required for sustained performance.

Skills Development

At this level, skill development is about going back to basics. This might mean re-teaching fundamental techniques like shooting, passing, dribbling, or defending. It’s crucial to ensure that players are not just participating in drills but are also understanding the “why” behind each exercise. Skills are developing when players start executing in games what they’ve been learning in practice—whether it’s successfully running plays, applying pressure defense, executing fast breaks, or setting effective traps.

As a coach, it’s essential to celebrate small victories at this stage. When a player successfully executes a new skill in a game, it’s a sign of progress. These moments build confidence and create a positive feedback loop, encouraging further effort and improvement.

Level B2:
Competitive Effort

Once the team has made progress in focus, conditioning, and skills, they often find themselves in close games. They may still lose more than they win, but there’s a noticeable shift—they’re competitive. This stage is characterized by increased effort and the ability to win parts of the game, such as a quarter or a half, even if the overall result is a loss.

Good Effort

At Level B2, effort is no longer a sporadic occurrence but a consistent theme. Players are beginning to take pride in their work ethic, pushing themselves and each other to higher standards. They’re competing hard every minute of every game, regardless of the score. This competitive effort is the foundation upon which winning is built. It’s about teaching the players that success isn’t just about the final score—it’s about winning each moment, each possession.

Winning Parts of the Game

Although the team may still lose, they begin to win quarters or halves. This is a significant milestone because it shows that the team is capable of executing a game plan effectively for extended periods. The challenge at this level is to maintain focus and effort throughout the entire game, rather than just in spurts. Coaches should emphasize the importance of consistency and perseverance, reminding players that winning quarters is the first step toward winning games.

Level B1:
Over the Hump

This is the stage where a team begins to experience more frequent success. They’ve “overcome the hump” and start to win close games that they might have lost before. Confidence begins to build, and with it, a crucial shift in mentality occurs—the team starts to believe they can win, even in high-pressure situations.

Winning Close Games

At Level B1, the team has learned how to handle crunch time. They no longer crumble under pressure; instead, they thrive in it. Winning close games is a skill in itself, requiring not only physical execution but also mental toughness and strategic awareness. Players must trust each other and their ability to perform in critical moments. Coaches should focus on situational practices—like late-game scenarios—to ensure the team is prepared for anything that comes their way during a game.

Crunch Time Confidence

Confidence is the key to success at this level. A team that believes in its ability to win is dangerous. This confidence is built through experience—by repeatedly finding themselves in tight situations and learning how to navigate them successfully. It’s important for the coach to reinforce this confidence by highlighting past successes and encouraging players to trust their training and instincts.

Level A:
Consistent Winning

Reaching Level A is the ultimate goal—a stage where winning becomes a habit rather than an exception. At this level, the team not only wins but does so convincingly. You are blowing out opponents by 20+ points and doing so consistently.

Blowouts and Dominance

When a team reaches Level A, they’re not just winning—they’re dominating. Blowouts happen when a team is firing on all cylinders—offense, defense, and everything in between. The team has developed a winning culture, and the players expect to win every time they step on the court. This mindset shift is critical. The fear of losing is replaced by the expectation of victory, which drives the team to perform at a high level consistently.

Maintaining Consistency

Consistency is the hallmark of a winning team. It’s not about peaking for one game but about sustaining a high level of performance across the entire season. This requires relentless effort in practice, continuous skill development, and unwavering mental toughness. Coaches should keep pushing the team, reminding them that there’s always room for improvement, even when they’re winning consistently.

The Bottom Line: Don’t Give Up

Turning around a losing program is never easy. It’s a process that requires patience, perseverance, and an unwavering belief in the potential of the team. There will be setbacks, moments of doubt, and possibly an extended period of losing. But as long as you stay committed to the process and keep pushing your players to improve, the wins will come.

Win or Learn

One of the most important lessons to impart to your team is the concept of “Win or Learn.” In the early stages, when losses are more common than wins, it’s crucial to frame each game as a learning opportunity. What went well? What needs to be improved? By focusing on continuous improvement, rather than just the outcome, you help your players develop a growth mindset—a belief that they can always get better with effort and practice.

Set Clear Expectations

From day one, it’s essential to set clear expectations for your team. These expectations should cover everything from effort and attitude to punctuality and respect. By establishing a standard for everything, you create a culture of accountability and discipline. Rules are important, but standards are what sustain a winning culture. These standards should apply to everyone—no exceptions. When players understand that everyone is held to the same standard, they’re more likely to buy into the program and push themselves to meet those expectations.

Some Final Words from Coach…

“The Levels of Winning” is not just a theoretical framework; it’s a roadmap to success. By focusing on improving focus, conditioning, and skills, cultivating competitive effort, learning to win close games, and finally achieving consistent dominance, a coach can transform a losing team into a powerhouse. But remember, this transformation doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time, hard work, and a steadfast belief in the process.

As a coach, your job is to guide your team through these levels, celebrating the small victories along the way and never giving up—even when the going gets tough. Because in the end, it’s not just about winning games—it’s about building a culture of excellence, where every player strives to be their best, both on and off the court. And that’s the real victory.

About the Author:
Coach Dave Wheeler

Coach Dave Wheeler

Coach Dave Wheeler is a seasoned basketball coach with a proven track record of developing top-tier talent across multiple levels of the sport. Recognized as the #1 basketball development coach in Montana for the past two consecutive years by Coachup.com, Coach Wheeler has honed his craft through extensive experience at the middle school, high school, AAU, and college levels.

His expertise in building winning programs is well-regarded, making him a sought-after coach for teams looking to turn their fortunes around. Currently, Coach Wheeler is in the process of interviewing for his next head coaching position (2024-25 season) in the Bozeman / Belgrade / Livingston, Montana area where he aims to bring his winning philosophy and experience to a new team that is hungry for success.

Wheeler's Winning Basketball Pyramid

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Building a Winning Mindset podcast

with Coach Wheeler

This blog article will introduce you to Coach Wheeler’s podcast and then new articles (and show notes) will follow all the challenges, roadblocks, successes and “learning experiences” that come up for Coach Wheeler as he develops his “Winning Mindset” podcast.

Pat Flynn is one of the [virtual] mentors that Coach Wheeler will be referencing since he has created loads of great resources for podcasters (based on his blog and podcast, SmartPassiveIncome.com).

Here is part of the New Podcast checklist that we downloaded from Pat…

  • Podcast Title (40 characters or less is recommended)
    “Building a Winning Mindset with Coach Wheeler”
  • Podcast Subtitle (a one-liner description of your show)
    Which one do you like?
    “Learning from Winners”, “How to become a winner in whatever you do”, “Mindset Training for Winning at Sports, Business and Life”
  • Keywords (5 to 7 keywords related to your podcast topic)
    Mindset, Winning, Mental Toughness, Competitive, Basketball, Tactics, Strategies, Train your Brain
  • Podcast description (1-2 paragraphs about your podcast. Include keywords, but most importantly, write for humans! This is what they’ll read before pressing play)
  • Podcast Artwork (3000x3000px .jpg or .png)

    What do you think?
    Please a comment below to help make the podcast something that will help you and your team develop a winning mindset.